why we determined to homeschool

sharing extra about how lengthy we intend to homeschool, and why the heck we’re doing it with just a bit over a month left of the varsity yr. 

Hello pals!

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For right this moment’s put up, I wished to share somewhat bit extra about our homeschool journey and what’s happening. I’ve alluded to the truth that we’ve had a tough time the previous few months and it’s been tough to navigate how and what to share. I’ve all the time been open with you guys with regards to my life, however the aim of the weblog has all the time been to share MY expertise; not my youngsters’s. It’s a tough line to stroll, particularly once they’re an enormous a part of my life and I really feel like so a lot of you’re part of our household. On the identical, I by no means need them to really feel like their privateness has been invaded by what I share right here, so I’ve all the time tried to take a fragile strategy to my content material, particularly as they’ve gotten older.

The nutshell model is that this: we ended up transferring Liv to a different non-public college in January. We have been all battling the mind-boggling quantity of homework, checks, and assignments. It was particularly exhausting together with her competitors dance schedule. We switched studios and reduce her hours in half, and he or she was nonetheless up till not less than midnight each evening (for the previous 2+ years) making an attempt to complete the whole lot for college. I’m an enormous believer in exhausting work and I believe tutorial rigor has its place, nevertheless it was an excessive amount of for everybody. So, she switched and has been thriving.

When she switched faculties, it was the primary time P hasn’t had her massive sis in school, which was difficult for her. The Pilot additionally retired, which was an enormous transition, and he or she began to have extra frequent stomachaches. (Her abdomen has bothered her on and off for years, which has all the time apprehensive me since she had severe reflux as a baby and was on Prilosec and Zantac, which has been recalled for terrifying causes.) She noticed a number of docs, had an ultrasound, her abdomen was deemed “wholesome,” and their solely suggestion was to place her on a PPI once more. She was additionally doing CBT weekly, and generally twice per week. Her abdomen ache and anxiousness bought so dangerous that she missed many days of faculty, and we have been right here making an attempt to maintain up with the insane quantity of homework, classwork, and checks.

The Pilot was dwelling for retirement and was instructing her the content material, ensuring she accomplished the large packets of classwork, and taking her to high school for checks. He had return to industrial airline coaching and I couldn’t fathom solo parenting, working, and making an attempt to maintain up with all the college work she was lacking, so I requested her to both select to return to high school or we might pull her out, and he or she mentioned, “Please homeschool me.”

I by no means supposed to be a instructor, however I’ll do something for our infants and if it’s what P wants proper now, I’m going to do it.

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Additionally value mentioning right here that I made a decision to do a Food Sentivity Test (and another practical labs) and bought to the foundation reason for some intestine points, and her gluten sensitivity was extreme. No marvel her abdomen was hurting :/ Since she began the protocols and eliminated gluten, her abdomen ache has tremendously decreased.

Our plan now:

– She’s on the waitlist for Liv’s new college however realistically received’t be capable to get in till fifth grade

– We’ll homeschool till then and if she decides to return, that’s nice, and if she doesn’t wish to, that’s okay, too.

The humorous factor is that I was actually cautious of homeschooling. Pre-kids thought to myself, “How on earth can a father or mother anticipate to show their children extra successfully than a instructor?”

Through the women’ time at school, we’ve had some extraordinary lecturers who’re the whole lot lecturers needs to be. They love children, love what they’re instructing, they’re above and past. However on the identical time, some lecturers are…not good. They are saying weird issues in school, disgrace youngsters in entrance of their friends, and this occurs in a non-public college setting ALL the time, if you find yourself paying on your child to be taught by instructors who don’t appear to love youngsters in any respect. A overwhelming majority of the time, we spent the three to 4 hour block every evening instructing anyway, as a result of they weren’t taught the content material throughout their lessons.

Rising up, I additionally thought that homeschooled children have been most likely awkward as a result of they don’t have as a lot social interplay. The truth is that all the homeschooled children I’ve met are type, articulate, pleasant, and extremely sensible.

Although I’ve seen pals homeschool and type of daydreamed about how how enjoyable it might be, I didn’t take into account it a risk as a result of I do business from home, juggling shopper calls, content material creation, podcast interviews, Zooms, IHP work, and so forth. I didn’t really feel like I might add one other issues to my plate, however I didn’t even assume twice about it after we bought so far. I’ve shuffled my schedule round lots so that the majority of my content material creation is completed over the weekend, and the wonder about homeschool is that it solely takes round two hours every day at this age.

This put up is already tremendous lengthy, so I’ll share one other put up quickly with the curriculum we’re utilizing and the way we construction our days.

Thanks on your kindness and being so superb over the previous few months. It’s been a tough yr in some ways (this is only one of them) and being right here with you all every day is a serious vivid spot. We completed our first full week of homeschool and I’m feeling fairly excited and hopeful about it! I’m additionally grateful that we get to spend some further time collectively and are wanting into all the cool homeschool actions that Tucson affords!

xoxo

Gina